Update. I had the battery disconnected from last night. I was careful to reconnect tonight and my security light went away. So I eliminated that possibility and moved to the next...the ignition switch. I pulled apart the column and looked around, but found no corrosion. Still not getting power to the fuel pump relay. Got in bed to continue google searching and came across someone who had a bad ecm b 20amp fuse in the underhood area. Checked mine and it looked ok. Started checking all fuses that surround the fuel pump relay and many more. Found 2 bad fuses. CHanged them and VIOLA!!!!
Hope it could be as easy for some of you also experiencing this issue.